...That wasn't what I was talking about either. But for the record? You're right about that. I'd never argue that one with you. Not telling people things is straight up a power play. It's a way to protect your feelings above theirs and reserve any upper hand you can, as a last resort. I'd know all about it. I love keeping pertinent information to myself...it's never been anything but weakness.

[Okay so maybe this got that into the weeds because it's directly relevant to their current situation, which she doesn't know about, because he's not telling her, which is the source of this conversation, and

Ha ha. He rests his chin on his knee.]

Whatever. You don't need to listen to all my bullshit. All I'm trying to say is that you're right, and also that it doesn't reflect on you at all. Other people holding back is all about them. It's a selfish act.